The 25th November marks the start of the 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence, which runs every year from the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, to Human Rights Day on 10th December. This year’s theme #HearMeToo, aims to bring everyone together to stand in solidarity with women’s human rights defenders the world over.

At Afghanaid, the principle of gender equality underpins all of our work and, this year, with the Department for International Development (DFID)’s support through UK Aid Direct, we are achieving significant progress in this area. We have just launched a large-scale initiative to empower vulnerable women in some of the most remote areas of Afghanistan.

The situation in Afghanistan

Although the protection of gender rights has made significant legislative progress in Afghanistan over the last decade, the country continues to be one of the most difficult places in the world to be a woman.  Women and girls still face major barriers to education, employment, and participation in decision-making processes in their own homes and communities.

As a result, they have very little influence over the issues which affect their day-to-day lives the most, for example marriage and family planning. Perceived as bearers of male and community honour, women frequently face violence if they go against established gender roles. More than 87% of Afghan women and girls still suffer from at least one form of abuse, ranging from physical or psychological violence, to forced marriage.

With the support of DFID through UK Aid Direct and the generosity of the British public, we are working to change this.

How we are helping

As a trusted presence with years of experience in Afghanistan, Afghanaid is able to approach sensitive and complicated issues, such as family planning and women’s empowerment, even in some of the most remote villages.

Take Zahra (pictured), from a remote rural village in Ghor province. Afghanaid is supporting Zahra to establish her own small business by giving her equipment and training in a vocational skill, as well as training in enterprise development, basic literacy and numeracy, and financial management, Through this project, Zahra will gain the skills and resources to earn an income and lift her family out of poverty.

We know that when women in rural Afghanistan start to bring money into poor households, they gain greater respect from their male family members. We will also be teaching the women about family planning and reproductive health. Once they have a greater knowledge and understanding of these topics, they will be able to harness their improved  social standing to influence decisions over family planning and the early marriage of their daughters.

Zahra's story

Zahra was just 14 when she was forced to marry her husband, Muhammad Amin. Muhammad Amin came to her father one day to ask for her hand, and he agreed without consulting her. One month later the marriage took place. The marriage has not been a happy one for Zahra.

“Thanks to Afghanaid, women here are becoming more educated and our entire community is becoming more aware of women’s rights, including issues like early and forced marriage, as well as family planning. I was not so lucky. On my wedding day I was very sad to be taken away from my family to live with a man I did not know and this is not the future I want for my daughters.

My husband and I have 7 children. He wanted to have a big family and he wouldn’t allow me a say in the matter. He does not have much respect for me so I would not have been able to change his mind.

My husband has problems with his knees, which leave him unable to work and we have struggled to provide for our large family. I would like to be able to afford education and nutritious food for my children, but at the moment I cannot.”

To Zahra, education and getting into work are the key to improving the lives of women like herself.

If women are educated, if they earn an income and contribute to their family, they will get more respect from their husbands. With Afghanaid’s help, I hope to learn a skill and get into work, so that I can provide for my family and have a better relationship with my husband and sons.”

In order to ensure that the women's activities and decisions aren’t met with opposition, we will also be working with male family members and mothers-in-law to increase their understanding of women’s issues. In this way, the entire community can stand together to improve gender equality and the long-term alleviation of poverty. 

  

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